Here are the different facts that makes a person quite different from others and special. Important points to do and to not.This post is about how to make everybody love you.
OK !! Well, Hello everyone once again welcome to The Wild Pedia . Today we are gonna have a different topic and that is how to be different and desirable.Every one wants love, actually I should say they need love as a human being…..yeah they are fond of love. It can be family love,friend’ love,beloved one and etc etc. And if you start analyzing today’s world you will get to know that nowadays many people are struggling to love themselves . And they never think to come out with a solution to it….they are just too much contempt with the going situation and a very few people take that courage and try to change the situation.You know what…..remember one thing “Only dead fishes go with the flow ” , so don’t be a dead fish rather be a smart,active one.
So,Let’s start !!
This is one of those qualities which makes a person different.Why is this so ?
Wait,take a pause,and think…..don’t you like to be understood ? Don’t you love when someone
understands what you want before you say it yourself ? So….everyone wants to get understood….
somewhere we need a person who can understand our inner side….so yeah….we all love
being with that kind of person.So…understanding comes first when you want others to like you and to make
them connected with you by heart.
Many people according to the research have a fear to be left unheard.Everyone wants to
be heard carefully by someone . You know a person is more likely to get close to someone
when they are upset and alone….at that time they just want someone to listen to them.
Not necessarily they need a solution,just…..just someone who can peacefully listen to them.
So if at that time you are with them…it can make that person emotionally attached to you in too less time.
3. Positive Attitude
Life is full of problems and everywhere people are busy in complaining about it.
But no one has that time to think that complaining is not gonna lead them to anywhere,
they themselves have to get up and change the things for them.In this scenario…..keeping a
positive attitude is a classy thing and everybody is just fond of these kinda people….as they
release positive vibes around them so..ya…people like you for your positive view towards life.
You might have heard this “To err is human” . A normal human commits many mistakes…..and
the strange thing is that when they commit a mistake they want others to forgive them easily but
when the same is done by others they act like they met a crime. Instead,of utilizing the rest time
in finding out the solution they waste it blaming others. So people are very less who actually
focus on solution no matter who has done the mistake and that rare behavior makes them special
and different from others.
5.Raising others instead of bringing them down
Nowadays people are dying for being on top,being ahead of others,being number one…..and
in that order they adopt a method of bringing others down.They believe that bringing others down
will help them reach above them.But there is no place for these kinda people in success world…..rather
raising others will automatically raise you.People like persons with this quality . And also it’s the
most important point of EQ (Emotional intelligence ) which is further a stair for success.And the best part
is that this kinda action will provide you inner joy as it will give you a feeling of contempt…..try complementing
people by heart and feel it.
6.They have no type.
People in this era has divided our society in different types based on their class and many other factors.
Some people don’t like to hangout with poor people,some goes for the look,some don’t like dumb people
and there are different categorizations like this. But still there are some people who has no particular type
that they don’t talk with poor or they don’t hangout with the one with bad looks and these kinda people
are so rare which makes them damn special and different from others.
7. Love and Care
This I should list on top but OK….fine,as the sequence is going.
So people who are full of love has no time for hating others for silly reasons as they are
occupied with loving you. Nowadays,even your friends have the habit of pointing out mistakes
but there are only few who rather on focusing on your mistakes will keep their eyes on your good
qualities.Everyone love to be loved…..everyone love to be cared….so instead of looking for that kinda
person why not be the one .
8.They are neutral
Being neutral means others behavior,actions will hardly affect your nature,behavior.
So….they have a different pattern of thinking and that can just be tough enough to be
broken by others.Others behavior,actions,thoughts can hardly affect their behavior.And
most importantly people love the ones having different and special pattern of thinking
which is just so unbreakable that nobody around them can ever affect that . And we all know behavior
is all a clear reflection of what are you fro inside .
OK !!! This is what I feel makes a person different . Hope you guys can relate to this….do let me know what else if you want me to add here in the comment section below.
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