Things girls totally hate in guys is all this post is talking about .Things which actually matters in real life
are the ones which gives you happiness or lead you to a particular
place or position . And here nowadays everyone is running behind their own formed perceptions of inner
peace and happiness . For some their inner peace is being with their love….for some its success….for some
its just having a gf/bf and etc etc . And in order to get something we need to perform accordingly a certain
set of actions towards them and also we need to ignore some things which can defavor your desires . So we
need to be very careful while we want something wholeheartedly .
Hellllooo People !! Once again welcome to The Wild Pedia. a hub for youngsters . Among all the posts
ever this is the post I was really excited to write as it would be all straight from heart to hand….no filters…LOL !!
But before starting a sense of gratitude to you people who love my blogs and has always been my side supporting me .
Thank you a lot people !!
First thing before starting….let me hit you with the reality ….see every one has different definitions of good , bad ,
attractive and all . And this all comes from their lifetime experiences which they have faced and thus which helped
them change their mindset for all behaviors. And if you want to change the way they think and make them feel you
are different you just need to break the reality and have to act differently from a normal human behavior . As for
instance….its been said that the more you give importance to someone the more they will start respecting you less
and taking you for granted…..but if you act different from this human nature that the more someone is giving you
importance….your respect towards them should increase in the same ratio and your friendship is getting deeper
day by day . And more like that…..breaking human myths . So with this reality check note let’s move on to the topic.
Here we will be talking about the facts and things girls totally hate in boys .
Let’s GO !!
1.Being judgmental .
Everyone knows boys can be sometimes highly judgmental like they have to judge at everything girls do .
They keep on looking on little things on which grounds they can judge them . And by little things I mean
their cloths,their way of talking , their friends ans etc . So some boys behave in this manner which is totally
disliked by girls that they are being judged by others . So if you want girls to like you then be an open minded
person who is ready to accept the differences in girls living style . And instead of judging try accepting the
way she is .
2.Being Over Protective .
See….let me tell you a secret . Girls damn love it when they are being protected and looked upon
specially by the person they like . But at the same time when the same person starts being over protective
where they has to take the whole control of the girl’s life it can seriously change the way she thinks about
you and can make you look irritating and annoying . And it’s not only applicable in love or like kinda
relations but also on friendship where we always have a friend who are over possessive for us….ya…..that’s
good……but seriously sometimes it can piss anyone off . So be caring but don’t over do it .
Gossiping is ofcourse considered as a kinda girl’s thing although its not liked that much by boys when their
girl gossips in front of him so how can one expect a boy gossiping nature would be acceptable . Yes its
the most annoying thing a girl can find in a guy but you know what the irony is that a girl on the other
hand loves when a guy listens to her gossip but they don’t like a guy doing the same…..they call it cheesy .
4.Waiting for others to keep their point .
Girls love it when a boy is able to keep their point , stand for their point of view ….. can speak it
boldly in front of others so at the same time they hate the trait of a boy of being not able to speak
up for his point or who is afraid to express himself . No matter what….you should have confidence
in yourself….don’t wait for others to keep your point,speak for yourself rather waiting that some
close friend will do it for you .This shows lack of confidence which is so unacceptable for anyone .
5.Being Dependent .
See being dependent covers everything….from economically to morally . Being dependent is
something which a girl literally don’t like whether its about being financially dependent on others
or depending for someone’s advice or opinion or anything . Dependence simply gives any girl a
view that if a boy cannot take the control of life on his own hands then how he will be able to
carry the bond further . So ya guys its a big NO for girls .
6. Resistive to Understand .
Girls love it when a boy not only have his own opinion but also he has much space in his head to
listen to what others are saying and to understand them without imposing his opinion to everyone .
This quality reveals a good personality trait about the man that he is keen to learn more….which is
called having learning attitude technically . But if you are resistive to understand things and situations then
surely it might give a girl clear feel that in future also you won’t be able to understand her as well which can
create unnecessary stress . So try to be understanding enough that you accept differences .
7. Being Irresponsible .
See being irresponsible simply gives a girl hint that you won’t be able to handle her as you are not able
to handle your own issues . And every girl somewhere at the core of her heart need someone who can
take care of her likes and dislikes . And on this base she will start judging you on the basis that you
cannot carry it better neither in public nor in private .
8.Being cheesy .
Many people gets confused between “the act of making her feel special and loved ” and ” being
cheesy to her ” . See you can really get a girl by showing her importance in your life in a admiring
manner but if you will get cheesy to her it can make her feel irritated f you no matter how much
you show she is special . So basically draw a line between “admiring her ” and ” maintaining your
self respect ” . It will get you her respect and admiration for sure .
OK !! This is all for this post . If you can relate to this I would feel my efforts are being paid . And
Ya as you people always to get a part 2 version of these kinds of topics I will surely come up with part 2
version very soon . Till then take care.
And ya a big THANK YOU to all who have ended this post till here . You all are love and your love
keeps me going . My efforts are nothing but just the reflection of your admiration .
THANK YOU !!
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