Ohh !! Hi !! You are in love with someone who does not love you back ! And now you have decided to forget him/her.Yeah ! Good decision,as what anyone is gonna get for running after someone . But…do you think to forget someone is an easy task ? Well !! No !! A hell NO !! But you know what anything which is tough actually but good for you then ya….your efforts are worth it . See I can’t actually promise to take him/her totally out of your mind but after this blog you are surely gonna see some effects on your mental health . I know you are suffering….missing him/her badly . So….Just do one thing….read this carefully and not just only you have to read..try to apply this in your actions if you actually want to forget him/her because if you don’t then you will just be happy with their memories and still you are not ready to forget him/her .
Hellooo Everyone !!! Once again a very warm Welcome to The Wild Pedia, a hub for youngsters . Today again moving to a sensitive topic I will tell you what you can do if you are heart broken and you actually wanna come out of that situation or ya you wanna forget them . But before starting I won’t forget to say THANK YOU to you guys for your love and support you have always given to me . You are the biggest source of motivation for me to write my thoughts,so thank you so much .
Guys,before starting let me hit you with the reality . See…..uhhh….it is actually quite difficult to take someone totally out of your mind who have given you a lot of beautiful memories . Memories you wanted to carry with you being with that person but now you want to erase them all,to forget them . This is actually tough and that’s the worst part of being in love . But you know what….what is the best thing about being in love and being left with a broken heart is that it makes you suffer which in turn makes you wiser,stronger,a better version of yourself . Just know one thing it might take you couple of months,may be whole year to forget him/her or even more than that but once you did trust me you are gonna thank yourself that you moved on . Because that will be the time you will realize that it was the best decision ever you made as you will meet a person who will love you unconditionally and you don’t have to beg for their love . See….that care will not go from your heart at least until the feelings leave. If you hear he/she in trouble you will want to meet them….your heart will cry to make them ok and to see them fine . That’s all fine. But you know what…..no matter how much strong feelings you have for that person it will leave after some time as feelings are temporary. This is the biggest truth that yes feelings are temporary no matter how much strong you feel for a particular person. As talking scientifically, its not heart that makes you feel that way but its the triggering of the chemicals in your brain which makes you feel the way . You listen to your heart not to your brain when it comes to them.
OK !! So let’s Start !!!
1.Cry….Let it come out of you !
This might sound a bit strange to you that what I am saying….cry !….Like seriously !! Actually yes….if you want to cry….cry as much….as long as you want . Let all emotions come out of you . The more you will be empty of your emotion the more faster you will be able to come out of it.Most of the time…we resist to cry as we feel….why should I !!! It was his/her decision to leave so why should I hurt myself. That time our ego speaks but trust me once you cry….you will feel too good,too light and free. So don’t cry for them….cry for yourself as it’s good for you !Don’t listen to your ego….listen to your brain.
See….many a times we feel that I am never gonna forgive him/her. And try to hate them….reminding our self a lot of negative qualities of them and also their bad moves. But you know what….you will try to hate them….and you will end up loving them more . Don’t think…..who has done wrong….or what he/she has done to you….it might be wrong ya I admit it but forgive them not for them but for yourself . Don’t feed your ego rather accept the truth and try to welcome it as whatever happens ….happens for a good reason . Forgive….it’s for your inner peace…forget their wrongs,remember your rights.
3.Practically accept the situation.
Many a times we don’t think practically . If something is bothering you like hell….complaining is not gonna help….rather sit..take a minute….and think whatever is being done to you and whatever is going on in your life due to this. Think about both of the sides….the positive aspects as well as the negative aspects of the situation.Think deeply from both the sides. And you yourself will come to a solution that you will embrace .Think like…..”He has a girl friend….nice ya…he is happy and fine with that…great….good for everyone” , “He never loved me nor he do….Ok..I am so fine with it ” , “He is happy without me …..Cool….He is happy ” . And you will be contempt with your on going problem . Embrace it with an open heart.
4. Try being away from their memories.
Don’t touch a wound if you want it to get healed up soon . Delete their pictures….their memories….stop staking their profile…block them if you can . You know what….when you will miss them….you will pick your phone with a rapid speed just to see their photos and all else and the more they will be on your mind. But if you have deleted their memories….you will pick your phone to see their photos and suddenly you will be mindful of the fact that you don’t have any of their memory…..that time you will put your phone back and will engage your mind in other activity which is again a very good thing.And I know it’s actually tough to do this….can be a rude decision towards your heart but it’s good for your mental health.
5.Don’t be too harsh on your heart,stop forcing yourself to forget them .
Stop escaping from the fact that you are missing them , rather face it . You are upset….get upset , stop compelling yourself to forget him/her. Again this…..let your emotion come out totally from you . Otherwise…..you will unknowingly suffocate yourself . And this will in return get you more close to them. Guys…come on let’s face it…you have lost someone special….it will hurt ya…and you will for sure miss them . Accept it …..escaping will only make you feel more weak. Stand in front of fear…and face it . Wanna cry….go cry,wanna get upset….get upset .
6.Get a good circle.
A very important point,surround yourself with people who love you and who understand you ,who encourage you at your work,who feel proud for whoever you are . Simply the people with whom you feel free,you feel more of yourself . People who make you forget about your sorrows.
7.Do what you love.
Everybody has a different taste….someone loves dancing,someone likes playing guitar,some hanging out, and more.Start doing things which gives you joy.Go travel somewhere,meet your friends,try changing your surrounding,do whatever you love. Excel in that thing…explore yourself a bit more . There will be many aspects when you start looking at world with wider point of view and vision else than your broken heart.
8. Approach Positivity.
Surround yourself with positive stuff always. Watch good videos , be with good people who always keep on reminding you of your dream and to do something big , paste good thoughts in your room , approach positive vibes and start appreciating everything you have now and a day will come when you will be so full of positivity that you will have no time to cry for what you don’t have but rather you will cherish everything you have.
OK !!! So this is all I had for this post. Do let me know in the comment section below if you feel that I have missed a point . And your concern will be appreciated . Hope you can relate to this.
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